(Home-My Story).......                 True, Tragic and Unnecessary Gay Youth Suicide Stories......................         (Espańol) 

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PART 2 (page 22 of 34)
Homosexuality: Nature or Nurture? (Part 1 of 5)
Coming Out In Middle School - The New York Times Magazine
8 Awesome Videos!
Realizing That You're Different From Others, What a Gay or Lesbian Teen Goes Through
The Case Against Gay Marriage - Cartoon by Danziger
We Don't Have Homosexuals in Iran. . . . anymore - Cartoon by Cox and Forkum

I Think My Grandpop Saved My Life
And How Do Americans Feel About New York's New Marriage Equality Bill

Game Changer - President Obama Personally Supports Marriage Equality
And Here's More Evidence in the Form of a Chart That Shows Why Gay Folks WILL Have Equal Rights In The Future 

An Overview of the Same-Sex Marriage Debate
Top 10 Reasons Why Gay Marriage Is All Wrong
Religious Conservatives Are the New Minority, But They’re Not Victims

The Proof that Homosexuality is not a Choice - Test Yourself!! - by Gary Lynn

Look, generally speaking it’s really so simple and not rocket science. This test usually works if you’re a 15 year old male or older. If you get really sexually aroused by only images in your mind of age appropriate teenage girls or women you’re a heterosexual. If you get really sexually aroused by only images in your mind of age appropriate teenage boys or men you’re a homosexual. If you get really sexually aroused by either of the above then you’re a bisexual. If you’re from 10 - 14 years old then I understand that there’s a small chance that if the above test shows that you are either a homosexual or a bisexual then this could just be a stage or a time of questioning that you are going through towards heterosexuality. And remember that when it comes to our sexuality, we're all unique and very special, so apply this test only on yourself and not others. Trying to label someone else can be very harmful to that person. But the whole point here is that sexual arousal or who we are sexually attracted to is not a decision, it’s just part of who we are and God-given and natural. Duh . . . 

And for those of you who are thinking, "just because you are sexually attracted to someone of the same sex (age appropriate of course) doesn't justify or make it right to try to have a lifelong loving relationship with that person, especially with someone of the same sex, horrors!", please click here and read My Response.

 

Nobody, least of all me, wakes up one morning and thinks, "I have a great idea, I think I'd like to become a member of a detested minority."  Hello!  Nobody chooses to be Gay!  But once we know for sure, we say, I’m gay, I’m proud to be who I am, who God made me to be, but there’s much more to me than that.

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I was 14 years old and in the 10th grade at Van Nuys High School in the San Fernando Valley in Los Angeles, California, in September, 1955 when this photo was taken for the Identification Card. I was obviously a late-bloomer.  Well, the girls (boys?) thought I was cute anyway, ha-ha.  Shortly after this picture was taken my family moved to La Mirada, California. So Excelsior High School located in nearby Norwalk was the high school from which I graduated in 1958.  Gary Lynn
 


I Just Love Thanksgiving, Don't You?
Click HERE to read how 14-year-old Jody figured out that he was gay, thought by thought, happening by happening, and what he did to go out and unsuccessfully find a boyfriend, ha-ha. It was only when he had reached a dead end, coincidently enough on Thanksgiving, that things started to look up. You'll enjoy reading this funny but thought provoking short story by Grant Bentley entitled I Just Love Thanksgiving, Don't You?   His other stories that you find HERE are also very good. 
 


Awesome Videos! by Gary Lynn

 

Click Here to watch this 47 second YouTube Drama, where against all odds, this boy did the most courageous thing that a really young gay boy can do at a co-ed dance.  The whole intimidating process of trying to meet other guys like himself is every gay boy's worst nightmare.  So you will be transfixed by this boy's steely determination to have his plan succeed. 

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Click Here to watch "The Closet" Starring budding child actor, Andy Scott Harris. An old man recalls the moment that defined his life, when his innocent friendship with a neighboring boy is crushed by the boy's homophobic father. This is an amazing and well-made short film of only 3 minutes and 27 seconds on YouTube. 

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Click Here to watch the award-winning music video "Viorar Vel Til Loftarasa" - [English Subtitles] by Sugar Ros (2001)  12-year-old Boys, Dolls and Kisses.  You are a 12-year-old boy and Catholic.  What would your homophobic father do if he saw you playing with dolls and kissing another boy?  7 minutes and 3 seconds on YouTube. 

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Click Here to see Ellen DeGeneres Talk To Really Inspiring 14-Year-Old Graeme Taylor.  In October, 2010 Jay McDowell, a teacher at Howell High School in Livingston County, Michigan, was suspended for asking one of his students to leave the classroom for making crude anti-gay remarks.  At a recent school board meeting, a student, openly gay 14 year-old Graeme Taylor, came to McDowell’s defense with this well articulated speech.  First listen to Graeme's speech which was shown as part of his appearance on Ellen. 7:57 minutes on YouTube.

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Click Here to see and hear the amazing YouTube Video of William's Song as performed in Santa Cruz by the San Francisco Gay Men’s Chorus (SFGMC). William's Song is based on the true story of William Wagner and his mother, Carolyn Wagner, who sued an Arkansas school for allowing five fag-bashers to jump her gay son with no official redress.  She won.  3:36.

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Click Here to see an Irish anti homophobic bullying advertisement, "Stand Up! – Don’t Stand for Homophobic Bullying", created as part of BeLonG To Youth Services annual Stand Up! LGBT Awareness Weeks. The campaign promotes friendship amongst young people as a way to combat homophobic bullying. 4:24

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Click Here to see this very powerful It Gets Better video produced by Apple employees. I wish I had something like this to watch when I was a teen. Very powerful and moving. Take a look and spread it around!  6:04

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Click Here to see this impressive anti-bullying ad.  Do you get it?  How many times did you have to watch it before you saw the light, er. . . red?  I must be slow since it took me 3 times-ha-ha.  50 seconds. 
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Gary Lynn's Favorite Music Videos from YouTube as Surprises  - Female-Country/PopMale Band Country; Male-Country; Rock and Roll-Instrumental; Motion Picture Theme; Rock & Roll Concert Opening-Female; Low-Rider-Oldie-Female; Rock & Roll Group-Oldie-Females; My Favorite Female Pop Singer; Low-Rider Oldie-Male Group; Phil Spector Special; From Concert for George (Harrison); Rhythm & Blues/Pop-Oldie-Female Group; Choral Music from a Motion Picture; The best from Woodstock, New York, 1969: Number 1; Number 2; Number 3; Number 4; Greyson Chance-Paparazzi; Favorites from the Bee Gees: Number 1; Number 2; Number 3; Number 4; The Best Pre-Teen Male Singer-Counry; The Second Best Pre-Teen Male Singer-Pop; The Best Pre-Teen Male Singer-Pop; Favorite-Elvis Presley; Female Legend-Country; The Best Last Dance Song; The Best Teen Male Singer-Pop; The 2nd Best Teen Male Singer-Pop; The Best of The Beach Boys; The Best of The Beatles; The Best Rock and Roll-Male; The Best of the 1960's (Incomplete): #1; #2; #3; #4: The Best of the 1950's; #1; #2; #3; #4; #5; #6; #7; #8; #9; #10; #11; #12 - The best of 1950s Doo Wop; #1; #2; #3#4; #5; #6; #7; #8; #9; #10; #11; #12; #13; #14#15; #16; #17; #18; #19; #20; #21; #22;

 

How Rock and Roll was born in the 1950's - Great History - 58:45 minutes

The Beach Boys 50th Anniversary Concert - 2012
 

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The Story That Grabbed My Heart - "Beyond The Rain" by Grasshopper - A Gay Teen Love Story - Overcoming The Barriers . Or Click Here
This is the story of Billy Carmedy and Aaron Sorensen.  It’s tough enough to be a straight boy in a small town high school looking for the love of your life. But at least your possible loves are all out in the open. It’s much, much tougher when you’re a 17 year-old gay boy, part of only 10% or less of the population and your possible loves are all in hiding, just as you are, due to fear of being socially ostracized, laughed at and condemned by your peers. Add to this mix the complete rejection of Aaron by his parents due to religious bigotry when he trustingly came out to them and you have the challenging but beautiful story of how two personable and intelligent gay boys circuitously find each other and somehow survive. 
This is a 9 chapter plus story by Grasshopper, a highly respected writer of gay teen fiction.
 

Click Here for Gary Lynn's Favorite Sites for Really Good Gay Teen Fictional Stories, Forums, Chat Rooms & Message Boards  
    


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A Gay Teen Short Story ♂♂
GOD MADE ME THIS WAY by Grant Bentley

Church is so confusing for Zack.  His new pastor preaches nothing but hate and condemnation of gays and lesbians, but no matter how carefully he reads his Bible, he can’t find where it says God hates him.  Will things change when Zach's boyfriend Billy suggests that they all go to his church instead?    Click Here or on the icon to read the story.


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Realizing That You're Different From Others

What a Gay or Lesbian Teen Goes Through

by Ronyx

I [think] of how gay boys and girls at some stage in their lives begin to realize they are different from others. We hear the crude comments beginning at a young age about queers, fags and lezzies. We sit in churches and listen to preachers talk about the sins of those who do ‘unseemly things.’

Then one day we go to gym and look at a guy or girl taking a shower, and we realize that the feelings we have are different. Lying in bed at night at ten years old with our best friend playing a game of ‘I’ll show you mine if you show me yours’ becomes more than just a game.

Then at thirteen it becomes, ‘I’ll suck yours if you suck mine.’ However, the next time you suggest doing it, your friend refuses because it’s just ‘too gay.’ But you still want to play the game.

At some point a young boy or girl realizes that they are what everyone jokes about. They are the fag, cock sucker, lesbian. They are the sinner that the preacher warns about at church on Sunday. Gay becomes the word that now defines them.

It doesn’t matter what they do, what they become or how they live their life; being gay becomes an overwhelming fear. What if my friends find out? Will Mom and Dad be disappointed? Will I be teased, or even hurt? Will everything I do until the day I die be defined by that one word?

Some people accept who they are. They won’t let the word consume them. They take control of it and build a life around it. It becomes a part of who they are, but their entire being isn’t determined by it.  I’m gay. I’m proud, but there’s more to me than that.

Then there are those who meet it half way. I’m gay, I’m me, but I’ll only let those who I trust share that part of me. They will accept me because they love me. So they go about their lives with an awareness of who they are, but careful that those around them don’t know. They go to school or work during the day hiding behind a facade, but step away when they return home.

Then there are the Genes [*] of the world, those who deny who they are. And they decide they will live a lie to those around them, and most importantly, to themselves. They try to live as the preacher says is moral, or as others say is right.

But who determines what is moral and what is right? Doesn’t each person have that right to decide what is right for them? Isn’t it more wrong to deny being gay, than it is to accept what one knows way down deep inside is right for them?
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*Gene is a character in the really good gay teen fiction story Brittle As A Bird by Ronyx. All of the above is taken from Chapter 19.  Permission has been given by the author to republish the above.   Send comments to the author at ronyx@themustardjar.com
 

 


 


"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." - Dr. Seuss




 

 

 

 

 

Sadly, This political cartoon of Iranian president Mahmoud Ahmadinejad, which adds one word to what he actually said in a 2007 speech at Columbia University in New York speaks for itself. Maybe this image can help us understand that as bad as things are for gays in the USA and other counties in the West, things are nowhere near as bad as they are in homophobic Africa and countries where Islam is the dominant religion like Iran.

 

 


 


 


 

A Must See Amazing You Tube Video of 19 year-old University of Iowa Engineering Student Zach Wahls Speaking Proudly About His Two Lesbian Mothers in Testimony before Iowa Legislators
 



 

 

I think my Grandpop saved my life

by Don Clark, Ph.D

 

A man told me [Don Clark] how he had dropped out of school, quit his job and been close to suicide when he received a one-page note from his grandparents that changed everything.  He had disclosed his gay identity to his mother and father and their reaction had been to enlist all of their friends to pray for him.  They did not want him to be gay, and he did not want to be gay because it was making everyone so miserable. 

 

His grandparents' note invited him to come and help them with their cherry harvest.  "It sounds dumb but all I could think about was the taste of my grandmother's cherry pie still warm from the oven.  It filled my whole mind.  It was my whole focus.  So I went. The second day I was there, my grandfather sat me down on the ground next to him in the orchard and asked me what was bothering me, so I told him.  He bowled me over.  He said he didn't see the use in talking about it with anyone else in the family because they were obviously too easily upset right now.  But he wanted me to know that he had had the same feelings when he was my age and he envied me, living at a time when it was possible to do something good with those feelings.  He said, 'You go find yourself a good man to love, love him good, and bring him back here to meet your Grandma and me and we'll help you celebrate.'  I think my Grandpop saved my life." (1)

 


 

How Would It Feel To Be Straight In A Mostly Gay World?
 

source: moveon.org

 


 

How not to react when your child tells you he's gay - Dramatic live recording - YouTube Plus A Gay Dad's Beautiful Response to the Rejection
 


 

 

COMMENTARY


If God Had Wanted Me To Be Accepting Of Gays, He Would Have Given Me The Warmth And Compassion To Do So
BY JANE KENDRICKS, The Onion*



I don't question God. The Lord is my Shepherd and I shall put none above Him. Which is why I know that if it were part of God's plan for me to stop viciously condemning others based solely on their sexual preference, He would have seen fit—in His infinite wisdom and all—to have given me the tiniest bit of human empathy necessary to do so.

It's a simple matter of logic, really. God made me who I am, and who I am is a cold, anti-gay zealot. Thus, I abhor gay people because God made me that way.  Why is that so hard to understand?

Here, let's start with the basic facts: I hate and fear gay people. The way they feel is different from how I feel, and that causes me a lot of confusion and anger. Everyone knows God is all-powerful. He could easily have given me the capacity to investigate what's behind those feelings rather than tell strangers in the park they're going to hell for holding hands. But God clearly has another path for me. And who am I to question His divine will?

Compassion, tolerance, understanding, basic decency, the ability to put myself in another person's position: God could have endowed me with any of those traits and yet—here is the crucial part—He didn't. Why? Because the Creator of the Universe wants me to demonize homosexuals in an effort to strip them of their fundamental human rights.

I'm sorry, but you can't possibly ask me to explain everything God does. He works in mysterious ways, remember?

Try to understand. If I were capable of thinking and acting any other way, then I'm sure I would, but God seems to be quite adamant about this one. He's just not budging at all. So unless our almighty Lord and Savior decides to change His mind about my ability to empathize on even the most basic level—which I find highly unlikely—then everyone is just going to have to accept the fact that I'm going to keep on hating homosexuals. And I know that He will fill me with the strength to remain mindless and hurtful in the face of adversity.

Which isn't to say that my faith hasn't been tested. Believe me, there have been times when I've drifted from the bitter and terrified life God has chosen for me. When my younger brother told me he was gay, it shook my faith to its very core. But here I am, 27 years later, still refusing to take his calls. Just the way God intended.

It's actually pretty astonishing how many complaints to the school board you can make regarding the new band teacher you've never met when you are filled with the Light of Christ and devoid of any real kindness or mercy toward His other children.

At the end of the day, I'm just trying to lead a good Christian life. That means going to church on Sunday, following the Ten Commandments, and fighting what I believe to be a sexual abomination through a series of petty actions and bitter comments made under my breath. Sure, I sometimes wish God would just reach into my heart and give me the ability to treat all people with, at the very least, the decency and respect they deserve as human beings. But unfortunately for that new couple who moved in three houses down, He hasn't yet.

Now, if you'll excuse me, I have God's work to do.
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*The Onion is known for its satirical brilliance. At the very least, it’s known for the Facebook outrage that’s generated from those who aren’t aware that they are all satire, all the time.  Click Here to read the original article which was published October 13, 2009 in The Onion

 

On November 9, 2013, Duncan McAlpine Sennett, 13-year-old Oregon Teen, Delivers an Amazing Bar Mitzvah Speech In Support Of Gay Marriage

 

Don't Let The Children See!!!!!!

 

 

 


 

 

You've Got To Be Taught (youtube)

You've got to be taught to hate and fear,

You've got to be taught from year to year,

It's got to be drummed in your dear little ear,

You've got to be carefully taught.


You've got to be taught to be afraid

Of people whose eyes are oddly made,

And people whose skin is a diff'rent shade,

You've got to be carefully taught.


You've got to be taught before it's too late,

Before you are six or seven or eight,

To hate all the people your relatives hate,

You've got to be carefully taught!

 

You've got to be carefully taught!

 

 

(Lyrics from South Pacific.)

 


Priceless!!!!!

 

 

 


 

 

And How Do Americans Feel About

New York's Marriage Equality Bill?

 

Poll: Eye Opening Generation Gap Shows Itself Over New York Gay Marriage

 

Same-sex couples wait in line to receive marriage licenses in New York City. | AP Photo

 
By ELIAS GROLL | 7/29/2011 - from Politico.com.  Americans are sharply divided over New York’s recent legalization of gay marriage, according to a new poll on Friday that revealed a huge generation gap in how same sex nuptials are viewed.

The Washington Post-ABC News national survey found that voters are divided 50-46 on whether the new law is a positive or negative development.

Among those under 30, supporters outnumber those who view the law unfavorably by a 2-1 margin. But among seniors, 6 in 10 say the law is bad news.  Click here or on the image to read more.
 


 

Game Changer

President Obama Backs Gay Marriage
 

 

WASHINGTON -- In a nod to a dramatic shift in public opinion, Barack Obama on Wednesday, May 9, 2012 became the first sitting president to announce his support for same-sex marriage.

In a sit-down interview with ABC's Robin Roberts, Obama completed what has been a markedly long and oft-mocked evolution on the matter.

"I've always been adamant that gay and lesbian Americans should be treated fairly and equally," Obama told Roberts, in an interview on ABC's "Good Morning America" aired on Thursday, May 10.

"I have to tell you that over the course of several years as I have talked to friends and family and neighbors when I think about members of my own staff who are in incredibly committed monogamous relationships, same-sex relationships, who are raising kids together, when I think about those soldiers or airmen or Marines or sailors who are out there fighting on my behalf and yet feel constrained, even now that Don't Ask Don't Tell is gone, because they are not able to commit themselves in a marriage, at a certain point I’ve just concluded that for me personally it is important for me to go ahead and affirm that I think same sex couples should be able to get married," he said.

“It’s interesting, some of this is also generational,” the president said. “You know when I go to college campuses, sometimes I talk to college Republicans who think that I have terrible policies on the economy, on foreign policy, but are very clear that when it comes to same sex equality or, you know, believe in equality. They are much more comfortable with it. You know, Malia and Sasha, they have friends whose parents are same-sex couples. There have been times where Michelle and I have been sitting around the dinner table and we’re talking about their friends and their parents and Malia and Sasha, it wouldn’t dawn on them that somehow their friends’ parents would be treated differently. It doesn’t make sense to them and frankly, that’s the kind of thing that prompts a change in perspective.”

The statement constitutes an act of political bravery on the president's behalf, as well as a major victory for the gay rights community, which has been pushing him to declare his support for marriage equality for several years. With the issue back in the news this week, the pressure intensified.

The president's support of same-sex marriage will have little political impact, from a practical standpoint, as much of the activity on the issue is currently occurring in the states and the courts. Already the Obama administration's Department of Justice has stopped defending the constitutionality of the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA), which defines marriage as a legal union between a man and a woman. Legislation to overturn DOMA outright would likely be blocked by congressional Republicans.

The more promising path for same-sex marriage advocates remains a friendly hearing by the United States Supreme Court.

Still, the symbolism of Obama's remarks is hard to ignore. In becoming the first president to publicly support marriage equality, he sets the bar for its political acceptance. He also has the ability to shape public opinion further on the matter. Click Here to read more of this article at the Huffington Post.

 


 


And Here's More Evidence in the Form of a Chart That Shows Why Gay Folks Will Have Equal Rights In The Future: 

Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. said, “The arc of history is long, but it bends toward justice.” This chart proves his wisdom. (Posted MoveOn.org on by Angie)

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 Found on PublicReligion.org. Originally submitted by Sara T.   Source of image and presentation is MoveOn.org




 


 

 

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Top 10 Reasons Why Gay Marriage Is All Wrong


1. Being gay is not natural. Real Americans always reject unnatural things like eyeglasses, polyester, and air conditioning.

2. Gay marriage will encourage people to be gay, in the same way that hanging around tall people will make you tall.

3. Legalizing gay marriage will open the door to all kinds of crazy behavior. People may even wish to marry their pets because a dog has legal standing and can sign a marriage contract.

4. Straight marriage has been around a long time and hasn’t changed at all; women are still property, blacks still can’t marry whites, and divorce is still illegal.

5. Straight marriage will be less meaningful if gay marriage were allowed; the sanctity of Britany Spears’ 55-hour just-for-fun marriage would be destroyed.

6. Straight marriages are valid because they produce children. Gay couples, infertile couples, and old people shouldn’t be allowed to marry because our orphanages aren’t full yet, and the world needs more children.

7. Obviously gay parents will raise gay children, since straight parents only raise straight children.

8. Gay marriage is not supported by religion. In a theocracy like ours, the values of one religion are imposed on the entire country. That’s why we have only one religion in America.

9. Children can never succeed without a male and a female role model at home. That’s why we as a society expressly forbid single parents to raise children.

10. Gay marriage will change the foundation of society; we could never adapt to new social norms. Just like we haven’t adapted to cars, the service-sector economy, or longer life spans.

 

Source: http://www.addictinginfo.org/2011/08/18/top-ten-reasons-why-gay-marriage-is-unamerican/

 


 

 


Source: https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=505875152759264&set=a.479821838697929.122649.479411108739002&type=1&relevant_count=1


 

 


Robert Galbraith/Reuters
Religious Conservatives Are the New Minority, But They’re Not Victims
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By Gene Robinson in The Daily Beast
March 30, 2014
 


Sure, it feels bad when the world you took for granted seems to have turned against you overnight. But Christians complaining about “discrimination” should realize what real victimization looks like.
 

From what I read and hear, conservative evangelical Christians are feeling victimized by developments in American culture and in the ways they are being treated under new anti-discrimination laws. In ever greater numbers, they are appealing to the courts to grant them “relief” from regulations that they feel violates their freedom of religion. “Religious liberty” has become the rallying cry for a legal “remedy” to the violation of what they see as their freedom to practice their religion.

It is understandable that religious conservatives would feel uncomfortable and unsettled by recent developments in the church and in the culture. But are they victims? Is there, as many would claim, a “war on religion?”

 

This is especially obvious in the changing understanding about homosexuality. In ever-greater numbers, and across every religious and cultural demographic, acceptance of gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people is increasing. In American religious communities, across every denominational demographic, support for equal rights for LGBT people, and particularly support for marriage equality for gay couples, is on the rise. In most denominations, that rise has resulted in majority support even when the denominational hierarchy disagrees.

Why have we seen such a sea change? Twenty years ago, most Americans would have told you they didn’t know anyone who was gay. They may have been suspicious about certain family members or co-workers, but it was not something openly talked about or acknowledged. Now, is there anyone left in America who does not know some family member, former classmate, neighbor, or co-worker to be gay?

 

And the result of knowing someone gay is that most people are now unwilling to believe or accept all the negative things said about us. The sky has not fallen, nor have church roofs caved in, just because gay marriage is legal in 17 states, plus the District of Columbia. Life goes on pretty much as normal, and in fact, people are seeing that marriage equality strengthens the institution of marriage, rather than undermining it.

For those religious conservatives who see something sinister and immoral in gay and lesbian couples having the right to marry, it must feel as if the moral universe has gone awry. The reaction to this development has engendered a fear that cultural morality is veering out of control. Nothing is as it should be. And it must feel to them that if such a proposition as marriage equality for gay and lesbian couples is accepted, nothing will now stop the world from careening out of moral control. That would be a pretty scary place for a religious person to live.  To continue reading click here.

 

The Right Reverend V. Gene Robinson is a Senior Fellow at the Center for American Progress and the IX Episcopal Bishop of New Hampshire.  Follow him on Twitter @BishopGRobinson.
 

 

"The consciousness of loving and being loved brings a warmth and richness to life that nothing else can bring.”  ~ Oscar Wilde ...


 

Let's close out this page with a good laugh.  Let's see if the symbolism is as obvious to you as it is to me.  If the little boy represents, for example, the Roman Catholic Church or the Family Research Council then I guess you can figure out who represents God and the gay or lesbian couple, LOL.  I don't remember where I found the picture:

 

       


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Footnotes:
(1) Clark, Don, Ph.D., "Loving Someone Gay" (Fourth Edition), Berkeley, Celestial Arts, 2005, page 226.

 

Click Here for What Parents of Gay and Lesbian Teens need to Know about Suicide - What Are The Warning Signs?

 

Click for Page 23 - Homosexuality: Nature or Nurture? (Part 2 of 5)
                          Further Proof that Homosexuality is Not a Choice
                          The Results of Scientific Studies Plus

Click for A Bisexual's Beliefs About God and Religion at The Present Time - Gary Lynn


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The Anti-Gay Religious Right's Really Cruel and Idiotic Argument
Their Message to a Gay Person is: Be alone. Live alone. Die alone.

 


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